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Pam Johnston's avatar

I really appreciate the distinction made here between adaptation and resilience--too many people still think of grief as a linear process with an end goal of "getting over it." In situations like mine, where the grief is complex (I'm slowly losing my husband of 37 years to early-onset dementia), there is no "getting over it."

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Robin du Plessis's avatar

Thank you for the distinction between resilience and adaptation. Something I hadn't thought about before but it makes sense.

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Anne K Scott's avatar

Great post - I use the seed analogy all the time and love the layering and nuance you bring to it here.

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