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Sheryl's avatar

It’s crazy. I wrote on this point in my journal just yesterday. This is my favorite part of what you wrote:

Looking back, I see that my heart, cracked wide open by loss, became exquisitely sensitive to the thousand quiet ways people showed they cared. Like a tuning fork suddenly calibrated to detect the gentlest vibrations of kindness.

One night, while still in my own grief pit, I blithely wrote on Facebook that I wished I had some Doritos. I don’t eat much junk food so there wasn’t even a poor facsimile in my house. The next morning I found stacks of Doritos bags at my door. It’s one of the greatest gestures of love I’ve ever experienced.

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Pam Smilow's avatar

Nice post

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Suzy West's avatar

Thank you for this reminder to notice all the beams of support around me. It truly is the small everyday things ❤️

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JLFB's avatar

That was beautiful. Thank you.

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